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Many couples with children find it difficult to resolve varying issues regarding child custody or child support. After years of experience in divorce and child custody matters, in most cases it is simply a matter of not being able to see past the current situation to what life will really be like after the divorce is completed. Couples who are able to work through their issues and craft their own agreements realize two important benefits. The first is that their agreement is much more likely to work for them over the coming months and years, sparing them future expense to litigate disagreements and changes down the road. The second is the pattern that it establishes for working together over the coming years as the child or children grow up. There will be many events where both parents will be in attendance. There may be issues that arise that require the parents to work together to help each child individually and as a family unit. In short, parents that learn to work through their issues together in a divorce find that their lives are much easier in that they are free from the nagging problems and argumentative environment that plagues so many other divorcing couples.